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finding and keeping a life partner

I was checking to my email and found this below from my friend via email couple years ago. Well, not all past should be forgotten.  =findingandkeeping a lifepartner= 1: Do we share a common life purpose?   Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you're married for 20 or 30 years, that's a long time to live with someone. What do you plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together? You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a common life purpose.   Two things can happen in a marriage:   (1) You can grow together, or   (2) You can grow apart.   50% of the people out there are growing apart. To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life!   Bottom line; marry someone who wants the same thing.   QUESTION ..2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?   This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship. Feeling safe means you can commu